a cup of talk

Tony speaks on the wisdom gained through mistakes, what he takes to be a privilege in the experience of heartbreak; and, incidentally, how he gets by now. And then he breaks it off into beats. A real treat.

Some are like drawn-out terminal cancer. Others, like an out of nowhere ton of bricks. Breakups happen. And more often than not, "cordial" is not exactly the descriptive fit. But what of the things of things-past that you may now possess? - A simple question then:

Do have any of your ex's stuff? If so, why do you think you still have them?

If you've been in a relationship before, then you've made mistakes in a relationship before. This is, of human nature, common law. Tony speaks of his mistakes, the fortune of experiencing heartbreak, towards the path of "wising up" to a relationship that lasts. But is this a necessary feature of achieving such a goal? So we pose the question to you:

Do you think people unavoidably make mistakes before they can settle into a good relationship?

acupoftalk notes: don't ever restrain a person. it's not only illegal, it's awful.
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